Research has proven that to a large extent, we make our own
good and bad fortune. It is also evident, through a scientific study, that it
is possible for people to increase the amount of luck they encounter in their
lives. Truth be told, we all have a lucky tie in our closet, a lucky shirt or
dress or a lucky something we do or wear to enhance our chances of being more
fortunate. These may make us feel nice for a while, yes, but it is not the kind
of formula that is being addressed by these scientific research.
In an article in Reader’s Digest, Richard Wiseman, a professor
of psychology, explains his findings on a research he did to find out why some
people are consistently lucky while other are not. He placed advertisements in
newspapers and magazines asking for people who considered themselves
exceptionally lucky or unlucky to volunteer in the study that was to be done in
ten years. 400 men and women responded,
coming from all walks of life aging between 18-84 years. The research was done
through interviewing the volunteers, asking them to complete diaries,
personality questions, IQ tests, and through laboratory experiments.
Results: Lucky people get lucky through some basic
principles – seizing chance opportunities, creating self-fulfilling prophecies
through positive expectations and adopting resilient attitude that turns bad
luck around.
To find out why lucky people have chance opportunities while
unlucky people don’t, he gave the lucky and unlucky people a newspaper and
asked them to tell him how many photos were inside. On average, he reported,
unlucky people spent about two minutes on the exercise while lucky people spent
seconds. Why? The paper’s second page had a big typed message saying, “Stop
counting: There are 43 photographs in this newspaper.” Lucky people spotted the
message. Halfway through the paper, he’d put a second message: “Stop counting,
tell the experimenter you have seen this and win $250.” Again, only the lucky
people won.
Results: Unlucky people miss chance opportunities because
they are too busy looking for something else. This is what I call the TB
pandemic; being Too Busy to spot and seize opportunities to better our
situations.
Lucky people on the other hand, see what is there rather
than just what they are looking for. They relish the upside of every situation.
They don’t just look for the spoon in their mouth; they walk to the kitchen, I
mean that’s where spoons are kept. Or better still walk into a cutlery store.
Don’t miss the nourishment of the things around you that can
help you live a better life. Have an open mind and grab the opportunities as
they present themselves. Create your luck and seize the opportunity to be at the
ATB Entrepreneurs and Start-up Event on 14th November. See you there
©Olegamba 2014.
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